Category: LGBT

Israeli same-sex couples find legal loophole for marriage

“(CBS This Morning”) Seth Doane traveled to Tel Aviv where he met a same-sex couple who had to find a legal loophole to get their marriage recognized.

Tel Aviv, Israel – Liran Buchny and Maor Shtern met almost a decade ago when they were serving in Israel’s army. Their wedding celebration was, no doubt, different. The venue: a nightclub, and the officiant was not a rabbi. But they wanted to keep some of the classic Jewish traditions including the toasts, the giant chuppah – or canopy representing “home” – and the stomping on glasses.

“I think that just by doing a big wedding in Israel, that’s our big statement … not letting the system take you down,” Maor Shtern told CBS News correspondent Seth Doane.

It had all the trappings, traditions and excitement of a wedding, but gay marriage is not legal in Israel. Israel embraces gay tourists – even hosts a gay Pride – but lags behind when it comes to gay rights.

Still, hundreds of wedding guests gathered in a very public show of support.

CBS News was with Shtern and Buchny ahead of the “big day” as they checked out the venue, the decorations and those all-important details like the rings. At their Tel Aviv apartment, we heard how the stresses of planning a wedding are universal. The couple said there have been arguments.

But as a same-sex couple, there were considerable differences in wedding planning. The Tel Aviv celebrations were actually part two of the wedding. Back in August, the guys and their families traveled to Portugal where they could legally marry. Then, a loophole allows the union to be officially recognized in Israel. In 2018, more than 400 same-sex couples registered their foreign weddings in the country.

Etai Pinkas-Arad was among the first same-sex couples to marry outside the country. He’s on the city council and founded Tel Aviv’s LGBT center, which staged a “mass wedding” protest during pride in June.

“We wanted … to give an opportunity for as many couples as possible to get – kind of – married,” Pinkas-Arad said.

“Married from more of a publicity perspective – more than a legal one,” Doane said.

“Yeah, absolutely,” Pinkas-Arad responded.

Israel’s Pride is a destination for gay travelers, but it’s a Jewish state, and Pinkas-Arad said the religious orthodox pose a hearty opposition. Being gay is “against the Jewish law,” he said.

Here, marriage is a religious institution. There’s no civil union – straight or gay.

“In Tel Aviv, you have gay parties, you have a gay pubs and bars,” Shtern said. “But sometimes, it feels as if like the government is using Tel Aviv – or the gay community as a like a pink wash.”

“What is a pink wash?” Doane asked.

“Showing to the world, ‘Oh, Israel is a very liberal place and Israel is very accepting’ – because when you compare it to the other countries of the Middle East, yeah – it’s right,” Shtern said.

Still, they’re proud of their country and their relationship.

“Even if it’s not legal we want all of our friends and family to be there and to keep the Jewish tradition,” Buchny said.

At their ceremony, Buchny and Shtern selected the rainbow as their wedding colors – something Shtern’s mom incorporated right into her hairdo. Just after the vows, the guys changed into t-shirts for a brother-sister family dance-off.

Buchny said it was “even more” than the wedding they had hoped for.

“During the ceremony I was like looking out at the crowd. I said I have to memorize this picture of all the people we know and all of the people we love standing together at the same place,” Shtern said.

“And it’s amazing,” Buchny said.

The legalities – or lack thereof – are overlooked here, at least for this celebratory moment where all that matters is love.

Homophobic Margaret Court to be honored at 2020 Australian Open

Margaret Court

MELBOURNE (Reuters) – Tennis Australia have brokered a truce with Margaret Court and will recognize the 50th anniversary of her calendar Grand Slam at next year’s Australian Open but reiterated the organization disagrees with her personal views on same-sex marriage.

Court, who holds the all-time record of 24 Grand Slam singles titles, has not attended the Australian Open since 2017 when her opposition to same-sex marriage made her a lightning rod for criticism in the leadup to a national plebiscite on the issue.

However, Court said earlier this month she wanted her 1970 calendar Grand Slam to be given the same respect afforded to compatriot Rod Laver, who was feted earlier this year at Melbourne Park for his 1969 Grand Slam.

A calendar Grand Slam in tennis means winning Wimbledon and the Australian, U.S. and French Open titles within the same year.

Tennis Australia (TA) said on Saturday they would honor Court’s achievement throughout the Jan. 20-Feb. 2 Australian Open, the year’s opening Grand Slam tournament, with a series of events and had invited her to attend, which she had accepted.

“I’m looking forward to celebrating the 50th anniversary of winning the Grand Slam with my family and friends at the Australian Open,” Court said in a Tennis Australia statement on Saturday.

“This is an incredible milestone for me, and I can’t quite believe how quickly the time has gone. It’s always wonderful to catch up with my fellow legends and I’m grateful to Tennis Australia.”

Video/ Scottish Laureate Jackie Kay on Growing Up LGBTQ

Video/ Scottish Laureate Jackie Kay on Growing Up LGBTQ | One Person, Two Names | Random Acts.

A short film directed by Lindsey Dryden featuring poet, writer and Third Scots Makar (poet laureate), Jackie Kay. Jackie tells an emotive story about her 12 year old self writing her first ever novel, ‘One Person, Two Names’ – the story is about a little girl who goes on the run from herself. The film explores what identity means today to Jackie, a Black, Scottish, lesbian writer, and reveals how storytelling and imagination can offer us a way to live with – and grow to love – our many identities. Jackie muses, “We often write because we have a secret self…another self that isn’t being articulated. We often write to find a voice for that silent self ” Featuring works from 1861–1967 relating to lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans and queer (LGBTQ) identities, Tate Britain’s latest exhibition ‘Queer British Art 1861–1967’ marks the 50th anniversary of the partial decriminalisation of male homosexuality in the UK. The show explores how artists expressed themselves in a time when established assumptions about gender and sexuality were being questioned and transformed.